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yayaisavampire asked: alright so here it goes. *sighs* i cheated on my boyfriend. i know its wrong. and i feel horrible. the only reason i did it though was because i had to know what it felt like to be with a girl. you see, im bisexual, and i had never been sexually close with a woman before, and i had to know what it felt like, before my boyfriend and I got married or something. We've been together for 3 years. He doesnt know this about me. Should I tell him? i know it wont happen again...but idk?? help!
Wow I was in a pretty similar position to you a few years ago with my (now ex) boyfriend. Except I didn’t technically cheat because we were on a month long break and yeah. I knew I was bisexual but I didn’t hook up with a girl until then and I never told him about that.
Hmm well if you love your boyfriend dearly and you know it won’t happen again, you don’t have to tell him because it’s not like you went around and fucked random guys. It was just one bicurious kiss, so if you do tell him make sure he knows that so that he doesn’t freak out and think you don’t like him/have found someone else. If you do tell him, be prepared that you might lose him but in your case if you keep it to yourself it might be better off.
Anonymous asked: Thanks for the advice and yeah i know her in real life and she goes to my school as well.
Ohhhhh haha. Well then of course it should be fine. Sorry about that, I always get asked for advice on online relationships so I thought you meant it like that. But seeing as she goes to your school, then it should be fine! You should ask her to hangout just as friends one-on-one or talk to her more at school and then if she displays interest in you then you should defs go for it! Good luck.
Anonymous asked: Hey! Can you help my out here. I really like this girl, we've been talking since October last year and we talk a lot everyday on Facebook and Twitter, i really think i should ask her out but she's a month older than me, i keep thinking that it would be awkward. Any advice?
Hello :)
Well it’s lovely to hear you’ve found yourself a girl that you really connect with. But to be completely honest dear, you have nothing to worry about when it comes to the age factor. Who cares if she’s a month older than you? There are many girls who are older than their boyfriends, and it really doesn’t matter, especially when it’s only by a month. And you know what? Im nine months older than my boyfriend, and noone really cares. We’ve been in a strong & healthy relationship for over a year and the fact that I’m older than him hasn’t impacted on anything. It’s not awkward, and it shouldn’t be a problem for either of you. So take that off your mind. Now do you know this girl in real life or do you only talk online? If you know her in real life, you should hang out ‘as friends’ just one on one and then ask her out and see what she thinks. If you don’t know her in real life, and only talk to her online you should be really careful becaue one, online relationships don’t always work out the way people want them to and two, they can also be really dangerous if you haven’t met them in real life. But if you’re certain that it’s perfectly safe and she agrees to it, then I don’t see why you shouldn’t have any problems. But yeah seeing as you didn’t specify whether you know her in real life or not its hard to give a definite answer. x
Anonymous asked: I am literally on the brink of suicide. I hate my parents, I hate being treated like a caged animal. I have tried fucking everything but no one understands the pain I feel when I see my dad. I can't look at him without crying. This is complete bullshit and I'm done being treated like this. I'm almost 16, under so much pressure and I honestly can't see anything changing. I'm not really looking for advice, just wanted to vent a bit.
Venting is good! It really does help.
Words cannot express how deeply sorry I am to hear what you’re going through. Last year, my life was exactly how you described. Even though you feel like your walls are crashing down, that you are on the brink of giving up and ending it all..don’t. Everything will be okay in the end, if it’s not okay then it’s not the end. Things may seem so fucking hard, but that’s what your teenage years are all about. I’m the same age as you, and I know many many people our age that are going through the same thing. You are not alone. There are people there for you, to listen, to make you better & see your ways of seeing life as horrible and worth it. In a few years you’ll be free and those will be the best years of your life. You will no longer be caged anywhere or chained to anyone. You’ll be free from your parents, your strict home, the horrible people you see in the classroom and in the hallway. Life at this age is fucking horrible and I have reached many points over the past few years where I’ve almost gone ahead in ending my life. But you can’t. And you know why? Because things will get better. Things will change. You will no longer have to feel pressure, hurt and everything will change and you will become the happy and true person you deserve to be. You seem like a very strong person to be dealing with this all at once and I commend you for that. But hold on just a little bit longer and so much beauty and love will appear in your life and you’ll truly see that life is worth it. Good luck.
Anonymous asked: why am i ugly :(
You are neither ugly on the inside or outside. You have a beautiful heart and soul, a wonderful personality & handsome looks.
You are yourself, your own unique person. You are everything but ugly. <3
Anonymous asked: i want to be loved. i want to have a relationship with someone but, then again, im too scared that i will become too dependent and then as a result, get hurt somehow. but i see how happy my friends are with their significant others and makes me so angry to see them pity me because i don't have anyone like that.
Everybody wants to be loved, I can’t blame you for feeling that way.
With every relationship, comes a risk of being hurt. No matter how true or amazing you think it will be or how wonderful the relationship is or is going there is still a possibility something will go wrong & you will get hurt. There’s no need to get scared, it’s just a natural part of life. People get hurt, fucked over, broken up with everyday. It’s happened to me numerous and numerous times. But you know what? One day, whether it’s tomorrow, next week, next month, next year or next decade you will find someone who will be equally dependant on you, feel the same way and will never be out to hurt you. You just need to be patient. There are two options you can take: Remain single and wait for that person. Or two, enter relationships easy and light and accept the fact getting hurt is a major possiblity.
Your friends shouldn’t pity you, they need to see you are independant and amazing with or without a significant other. One day you will be happier and find someone who will make you more happy than your friends currently are. You will find someone one day I promise. Be patient & continue to be your amazing self :)
